Dame Lay Panty Vibe with Remote Control

Hands-Free Clitoral Vibrator with Wireless Remote

The Dame Lay is a wearable panty vibrator made for clitoral stimulation at home or out in the world. You wear it inside your underwear, press a button, and let it do the work. No hands needed.

Dame designed this one specifically for vulva owners who want reliable clitoral pleasure on their own terms, whether that means solo sessions on the couch or a secret thrill while you're out with your partner.

The Lay sits flat and discreet against your body, and the wireless remote gives you or your partner full control without anyone being the wiser. It's made by Dame Products, a women-founded company started by a sex educator and an MIT engineer. That combination shows in the design: thoughtful, body-safe, and actually effective.

Key Benefits

• Wear it anywhere. A secure magnetic clip holds the Lay in place inside most underwear styles, at home or out in public.
• Hands-free orgasms. No awkward positioning, no holding anything in place, just consistent clitoral pressure exactly where you need it.
• Partner play made easy. Hand the squishy, easy-to-grip remote to your partner and let them run the show from a distance.
• 5 intensity levels and patterns. Dial in exactly the right stimulation, from a gentle warm-up to full intensity.
• Body-safe from the start. Medical-grade silicone means no harsh chemicals against your most sensitive skin.
• Waterproof for real. IPX7 rating means you can wear it in the bath or rinse it under the tap with no stress.

Specifications

Safety & Care

Cleaning: Rinse the Lay with warm water and mild soap after every use. The IPX7 rating means full submersion is fine, so don't hold back. Pat dry before storing.

Lubricant: Use water-based lube only. Silicone-based lubricants break down silicone toys over time and will damage the surface.

Storage: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep it away from other silicone toys to prevent surface degradation. The original box works well for storage.

Warnings: Do not use if the silicone surface is cracked or damaged. Charge with the included USB-C cable only.

Low battery indicator: The Lay alerts you when the battery is getting low so you're never caught off guard.

Packaging: Your order ships in plain, discreet packaging with no indication of what's inside.

Who It's For

The Dame Lay is made for vulva owners who want reliable clitoral stimulation without having to hold anything in place. It's a great option if you love the idea of wearing a vibrator out in public while your partner holds the remote, or if you just want a hands-free option for solo use at home. It also works well for anyone who finds handheld vibrators tiring or awkward to hold during sex.

What's Included

• Dame Lay panty vibrator
• Wireless remote control
• USB-C charging cable
• User manual

FAQ

What is the Dame Lay panty vibrator and how does it work?

The Dame Lay is a wearable clitoral vibrator that sits inside your underwear against your vulva. A magnetic clip holds it securely in place. You control the vibrations with the included wireless remote, which lets you cycle through 5 intensity levels and patterns without reaching into your underwear. You or a partner can hold the remote.

Is the Dame Lay panty vibrator discreet enough to wear in public?

Yes. The Lay has a flat, low-profile shape designed to sit flush against your body under clothing. The magnetic clip holds it securely in your underwear so it stays put. On lower intensity settings, it runs silently, so you control how noticeable it is. The remote lets whoever is holding it change settings without drawing any attention.

Is the Dame Lay waterproof?

Yes. The Lay carries an IPX7 waterproof rating, which means it can be submerged in up to 1 meter of water for up to 30 minutes. You can wear it in the bath or shower, and cleaning it under running water is no problem.

What kind of lube can I use with the Dame Lay?

Use water-based lubricant only. The Lay is made from medical-grade silicone, and silicone-based lubricants will break down the surface of the toy over time. Water-based lube is safe and keeps the silicone in good condition.

How do I charge the Dame Lay?

The Lay charges via USB-C. It has a low battery indicator so you'll know when it's time to plug in before your next session.

Who makes the Dame Lay panty vibrator?

Dame Products is a Brooklyn-based, women-founded company started by a sex educator and an MIT engineer. They design science-backed products focused specifically on vulva owner pleasure.