Let's get straight to it. Great sex is not about size. It is about connection, confidence, and using the right techniques. If you have a smaller penis, some positions work better than others to create deep feelings for both you and your partner.
These positions maximize penetration and stimulation. Try them to find what feels best for you.
Modified Missionary
This is not the basic missionary you know. Have your partner lie on their back and place a pillow or wedge under their hips. This tilts their pelvis up, creating a better angle for deeper penetration. When your partner raises their legs over your shoulders, it makes the vaginal canal shorter and tighter, increasing sensation for both of you.
The Lap Dance
This position is intimate and puts you in control. Sit on a chair or the edge of the bed. Your partner can then sit on your lap, facing you, and wrap their legs around your waist. You can control the depth and rhythm of the thrusts, while your partner grinds against you for extra clitoral stimulation.
Doggy Style with a Pillow
Doggy style is a great position for deep access. To make it even better, have your partner place a pillow under their stomach and hips. This changes the angle of their pelvis, allowing for even deeper entry. It also presses their clitoris against the bed or surface for added pleasure.
Cowgirl
When your partner is on top, they control the depth and angle. In the cowgirl position, they can move their hips in ways that feel best for them. They can grind or bounce to find the perfect spot that maximizes sensation. This takes the pressure off you and lets your partner guide the action.
The Scissor
You and your partner lie on your sides facing each other. Then, you each wrap one leg over the other, like a pair of scissors. This is a shallow position, but it creates a lot of friction and clitoral contact. It proves that deep thrusting is not the only way to achieve an orgasm.
Maximize pleasure with these simple tricks and tools:
- Pillows & Wedges: Place them under the hips or lower back to tilt the pelvis for deeper entry in many positions. Consider: Bedroom Bliss Contoured Love Cushion | Bedroom Bliss Love Cushion Set | Liberator Heart Wedge Position Aid.
- Focus on Angles: Experiment with different angles of entry to find the deepest and most stimulating points.
- Partner Movement: Encourage your partner to move their hips and grind in ways that create more friction and sensation.
- Manual Stimulation: Don't forget the power of hands and mouths. Clitoral stimulation is key for many women.
- Communication is Key: Talk to your partner about what feels good. Open communication leads to better sex.
Remember, the goal is mutual pleasure. Communicate with your partner. Add sex toys into the mix to explore different sensations. Focus on what feels good, not on size.
